Early one morning I found John sitting alone at the table by the cliff, writing.

We both asked for chai, and when we had finished our tea and he had stopped writing, we got into a discussion about ego and altruism.

I explained that at times I felt torn between these two opposing inclinationsóto be constructive in society and to be self-serving. He laughed heartily.

"Good one, mate! Here's one of the great puzzles in life: how to do good for others and at the same time for yourself. And where's the line between? I still have that in me head, too," he chuckled. "I asked the Maharishi about it the other day, and he said ego is not a bad thing. Actually, it's a good thing. The important thing, he said, was whether our ego manifestations result in good for others or in hurt for others. That's where you draw the line, mate. That's how you tell. Then we're doing good for others while we're doing good for ourselves."